Achieving Satisfaction in All Areas of Your Life
Biology-onoline.org defines personal satisfaction as “a subjective evaluation, judgment, or attitude expressed by an individual with respect to the attainment of certain goals or needs based on his level of aspiration or expectation.” In other words, how does your life measure up to what you expected or hoped it would be?
Although psychologists are best known for examining people’s emotions and mental well-being, they know that when the “whole person” is balanced physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally, the person has a much better chance to feel a sense of personal satisfaction with his or her life.
For decades now psychologists and medical doctors have agreed that regular physical activity is a terrific antidote for depression. Rather than producing exhaustion, physical activity makes us feel more energized. If you have a family, just getting everyone off the couch and out into the yard or park on a regular basis can strengthen not only your bodies, but the emotional bonds of your relationships as well. Looking and feeling better naturally leads to improved self-esteem.
Spiritual health is another part of the balanced and satisfied person. For some of us, the word “spiritual” is directly connected with a specific religion’s beliefs and with the practice of those beliefs. Others say “I’m not religious, but I’m spiritual.” In other words, they may not belong to any particular church, but they still feel a connection with something greater than themselves. Whatever your belief, this connection can be a powerful motivator toward personal satisfaction and balance.
Your job should be a source of mental and emotional satisfaction. People who feel that their jobs have a meaningful purpose express more job satisfaction than those who don’t. Managers often tell their employees about company “missions” and extol “the vision thing,” but even if you believe in your company’s mission, you may feel your own responsibilities have little real purpose. If you don’t have the authority to make decisions affecting how the company operates, or if you are hounded about reaching quotas but not praised when you do, working for even the best company can be frustrating. Too many people work unhappily for years at the same jobs, complaining steadily about how bad it is, and thinking that some day in the future things will change.
But living in the future can mean your present is wasted. It’s extremely important to get present-oriented. Think of success and satisfaction as a road you are on right now-not a far-off destination that never seems any closer. You’re more likely to take the steps that will move you forward to harmony and balance in all areas of your life.
Making the transition from standing still to moving forward begins with a positive attitude-about yourself and your capabilities as well as toward the people at work, your family members, and people with whom you socialize. Relationships with other people have all four aspects of personal satisfaction: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. Instead of concentrating on the negative, look for the good in those around you and in situations you encounter on a daily basis. If a problem presents itself, focus on the solution, not the problem. Most problems offer opportunities to learn something new. Instead of yelling at your computer, figure out how to solve the problem. Instead of shouting at your children or spouse, talk to them-or go for a walk or bike ride to burn off some steam and then talk about the problem and its solution. You’ll find that positive thinking and positive action empowers you to move forward past problems and to keep moving on along the success road.
If you feel you are in a cycle of failure, set a small goal you know you can reach with just a little effort. If you’ve been talking about doing something for a long time, but you haven’t done it, take one step toward that goal and allow yourself to feel good about the accomplishment. Renewed self-esteem will propel you on to your next goal.
Why is self-esteem so important? Because if you have a negative self-image, you are likely to become immobilized in an “I better not try it because I probably can’t do it” kind of mindset. Of course, if you don’t try, you’ll never know what the outcome would be, and you’ll remain stuck in the kind of mental and emotional state that leads to boredom, depression, and more immobilization. Your very first goal may be to learn to like, accept, know, and help yourself.
Setting goals often involves making choices, and making choices usually involves a certain degree of risk, but if you don’t make your own choices, you’re a slave to the ones other people-or life in general-have made for you. Certain things can’t be changed, but you should try your best to change anything within your power that is negatively affecting your life.
Tap into the energy source that is within you. Have faith in yourself. Have the courage to set your own goals, make your own choices, and take control of your life. If dissatisfaction is bringing you down, you can take a small step toward satisfaction and success right now. Fill in the form on the main page, and learn about some fantastic possibilities that could change your future.
The Instability of the Current Workforce:
Job Security is a thing of the past. What can you do to protect yourself from this?
If you’re like most people, then you want job security. That steady paycheck and ability to count on income in the future helps you sleep at night knowing that the bills are going to be paid. But long term reliable employment is getting harder to come by. Job security, once taken for granted as a part of American life, is declining, and in recent years job markets have continued to shift under people’s feet.
Your seniority at a job won’t protect you from job cuts.
Seniority can actually hurt you because older workers tend to be paid more and companies have many creative ways of removing older workers from their ranks. The “golden handshake” is the nicest way of losing a job, but sometimes a company will just close an office or plant that has an older workforce and that’s the end of it.
You may not enjoy thinking about these uncertainties, but deep down you know that you need a plan for maintaining your income in the future instead just relying on companies to employ you. Expecting to find a well-paying job that will be there for you until retirement is just not a realistic idea anymore.
Manufacturing jobs that used to be the pillar of well-paid secure employment are disappearing. The headlines always tell the same story. For example, Ford Motor Company, whose founder Henry Ford made sure his workers earned enough to actually buy one of his cars, has started massive job cuts.
In the coming years, Ford will shut down 14 factories in North America and it has already started laying off workers. It plans to shed 25,000 to 30,000 jobs before it’s done. These shocking job cuts include white collar workers as well.
Overall, in the years from 2000 to 2003, the United States lost almost 3 million manufacturing jobs according to the Economic Policy Institute. There is no sign that this trend is going to change.
You can also be leery of getting one of those “good union jobs.”
Tied in with the crumbling of manufacturing is the decline of union membership. Compared to 1945 when nearly one third of Americans were union members, the Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that only 12.5% of wage and salary workers were in unions in 2005. Unions that used to command high wages and protect jobs are fast becoming a thing of the past.
Then there is “offshore outsourcing” in which your job can be transferred to someone in India or Mexico who will make 15% of what you earn. Outsourcing doesn’t just happen to factory workers whose plant is moved overseas. It happens to software developers and it happens to administrative support jobs and to medical service jobs.
Why does this happen? The greatest factor motivating employers to scale back on secure employment is cost. Companies want to make money, and well-paid full time employees in America aren’t cheap. That is why companies look for ways to switch to lower cost employees in other countries or use non-union, lower paid, or part time workers here. And, because major employers tend to be very large multi-national companies, it is easy for them to play musical chairs with jobs among different countries.
This logically leaves you asking: “What can I do to be financially secure?”
As the above statistics show, looking to the job market is not going to get you what it used to in the past. You’ll need to take charge of your future and start making your own secure income. When you are the boss, there is no one to lay you off or cut your hours. Fortunately, there is an exciting home business opportunity that offers you a way to create your own safety net.
Security and financial success can finally be in your hands – not someone else’s.
Yes, it is tempting to keep putting all of your eggs into one basket and believing that your good job will last – or believing that you will find a good job for years to come. You hear about job growth and new jobs, but they are not the same jobs that are being lost. The new jobs are lumped into the category “service industry” – that means working in sectors like retail or customer service. These service industry jobs are notoriously unreliable in the amount of hours given and they pay less than the old manufacturing jobs.
White collar workers are feeling the pinch too. The stereotypical laid-off steel worker has a lot of company these days. In 2002, the technology sector dumped 150,000 jobs in the software sector. And computer chip maker Intel just announced in September 2006 that it will be cutting over 10,000 jobs in the next few months.
These technology jobs have been touted by politicians as the future for the American worker, but it is not a secure future. Those secure jobs from a bygone era when you could count on a company being around and taking care of you just are not reality anymore. This means that you have to start looking out for number one because no one else will. Your first step toward security is getting information about starting your own home based business.
America might be hard on workers, but it loves business!
Internet access and a telephone are all that you will need to build a successful business, and our team of trained professionals will educate you and help guide you down the path to success. It is amazing to think that you can so easily change an uncertain future, and begin to look forward to the lifestyle you always hoped for.
It is time to stop worrying how you are going to afford to live the rest of your life, and instead, take the first step towards securing your financial future. If you are ready to learn how you can begin to generate a substantial income right away that can continue to provide for you and your family, then you are at the right place. Fill out the form on the main page for additional information. You deserve the security and success.
